marking a place

in my singlular persepctive journal i've started a sex and relationships strand/filter but of course with it being in my singular perspective journal i can never write about how being part of a multiple system effects (affects? i always get confused about which of those two words to use when) sex and relationships. And of course it does a big lot. I don't have the time or the engergy to write about it now rither but i just wanted to flag up that is was something i'm thinking about and need to disscuss with (outside) people (we're already discussing it internally quite a lot!).